YHS exchange students wrap up their visit

JAN JARVIS - JJARVIS@SIERRASTAR.COM
YHS exchange students
Left to right: Lucy Alauz, Yeon-Woo Lee, Alina Budayeva, counsellor Stephanie Samuels, Agnes Kistamas and Terry Kim. Not pictured: Luda Kuleshova.

High school is an emotional and exciting time, to say the least. For six students at Yosemite High School this school year has been an especially memorable one, however, since they are attending YHS as exchange students through the AIFS (Academic Year in America) Foundation.

Students Lucy Alauz (18 years old from Ecuador), Yeon-Woo Lee (15, from South Korea), Alina Budayeva (16, from the Ukraine), Agnes Kistamas (17, from Hungary) and Terry Kim (16, also from South Korea) recently got together in the YHS career counselling center to discuss their year in Oakhurst. The sixth student, Lyudmila (Luda) Kuleshova from Russia, couldn’t be there in person for the interview, so she answered by email.

They arrived in the U.S. last August. With the exception of Alina, whose trip was sponsored by the U.S. government, their families paid for their travel expenses.

Their initial impressions of this country varied. Lucy said that, riding in a car to Fresno, “everything looked so flat.” Yeon-Woo added that in her hometown in Korea, “you can’t even see the sky” because of all the buildings. The wide open spaces of the Sierra foothills were quite a surprise to her. Agnes said that when she got here, she wondered, “Are you sure this is California? But you don’t have time to be disappointed.”
Luda’s first sight of America was the airport in New York. “My first thought...was: ‘Wow, just like I’ve seen it in the movies.’ Then there were a lot of things I noticed. The warm climate and the warm people…”

The girls remembered struggling with English in the beginning. “I was confused about the grammar because everyone speaks English differently here,” explained Alina. Agnes commented the slang gave her problems since she spoke “English English.” Alina jumped in: “I’m crazy about English.” All the students had studied English in their home countries and Terry even spent 18 months in school in New Zealand prior to coming to Oakhurst.

Their host families have taken them all over California. Some have been to Disneyland, some to San Francisco and most have seen Santa Cruz. Yeon-Lee was in Hawaii and Terry, besides living in New Zealand, was in the U.S. before, when he was 4 years old, “but I don’t remember anything about it.” Luda even loved her trips to Fresno and Yosemite. “I’m lucky to live here, not far from it,” she observed.

When asked to comment on the differences between their native schools and American ones, they all said the work was easier here but there were other things that made it harder. For example, Terry said he didn’t understand assignment deadlines. Luda said, “It is more strict and more easy at the same time.” Lucy attended an all-girls’ school in Ecuador and wore a uniform. When Lucy told the others about that, Alina commented, “That’s boring. I can’t imagine school without boys!”

All of them said they missed their families and keep in touch with emails. They’re looking forward to going home but will miss their American friends. Luda spoke fondly about her 17th birthday celebration here (“The most wonderful birthday I had so far!”) and the family dinners at Thanksgiving and Christmas. Christmas was definitely the hardest time for them, except for Alina, who said Valentine’s Day was the worst because she missed her boyfriend back home.

One of the biggest obstacles they’ve had to deal with, besides adapting to the language, is the distances here and the lack of public transportation. Alina said it was strange to be so far away from her friends, even if they all live in Oakhurst. Luda called herself “the only walking person” in Oakhurst and also said it was hard for her initially since “some people have stereotypes about Russians. I had to convince them that they were not right. I’m just the same a person as other Americans are.”

All of them said they wanted to return to the U.S. some day. Terry will be attending Dominican Christian High School in Georgia next year, so, after a visit with his parents in Korea, he will be the first to return.
Some have college plans and some don’t. Lucy wants to study psychology, Alina wants to be an interpreter and Agnes is aiming for law school. Terry wants to become a professor of computer technology and when he hits the ripe old age of 30, change careers to be an English professor in Korea.

When asked what they liked best about their year in America, what they’ve learned and what they would remember most, this is what they said:

Yeon-Woo: Trying new things, having experiences, learning. And I don’t have to fight with my sisters.

Alina: It’s been a time to see if I can live without my parents and not be a little girl anymore

Agnes: A new culture, new people. I can be a little girl again.
Lucy: I’ve learned to take care of myself.

They finished the interview talking about what they’d miss. Alina said, “I’ll miss the candy and the Mexican food. And flip-flops and jeans.” Luda added, “All the people, the school, my youth group, this quiet place, going to McDonald’s every Tuesday with my friend Lucy from Ecuador.” “Are you serious?” countered Agnes. “McDonald’s forever!”

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