Peer mediation at YHS

JAN JARVIS - JJARVIS@SIERRASTAR.COM

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Lacy Abbott and Alex Michel get suited up for the intensive ropes course at Peer Mediation Camp, held at Calvin Crest Conferences.


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Flying high!

Twenty-one students from Yosemite High School spent two days in late August at Peer Mediation Training Camp. The camp, held at Calvin Crest, taught the students how to use mediation to resolve conflicts between their fellow classmates.

During training, students are taught that conflicts can occur any time due to a difference of opinions or a clash of ideas. They are also taught that conflict can have a constructive aspect to it because it can be a catalyst for positive change.

“I don’t know anyone without conflict of some kind,” explained Stephanie Samuels, coordinator of the program. “This gives students skills they will utilize for the remainder of their lives. I wish they had this when I was young.”

Students who receive the mediation training are nominated by other students then undergo an interview process with counselors and faculty. “Some students are nominated simply because they’re popular,” said Stephanie. However, the interview process is rigorous enough that it identifies those students who are not genuinely interested in the mediator role. The program is no longer open to freshmen because it was too difficult for YHS staff to visit middle schools interviewing candidates. But that appears to have had no adverse effect — students who choose peer mediation to help them solve their problems do not seem to care what class the mediators are in.

Team-building exercises
Participants spend the time at camp doing various team-building exercises, as well working on a ropes course and the climbing wall. The students, who will participate in the mediation program during the 2003-2004 school year, were trained by various staff members of YHS. Nancy Lusby, Kellie Solomon and Stephanie Samuels were assisted by Tony Misner, Rebecca Orozco-Brokaw and vice-principal Tom Fiormonti. In addition, photographer Donn Lusby and two former students, April Martin and Jesse Knotts, were there to lend a hand and participate in the fun.

“This is our fourth year having this training camp...and it was better than ever. This is an exceptional group of young people, and having the assistance of the extraordinary staff at Calvin Crest added so much to our program. We all loved it and hope we can go back next year!” exclaimed trainer Nancy Lusby.

Said student participant Melanie Johnson, “This is my fourth year of Peer Mediation. I’ve been involved since freshman year. I’m so happy with how far it has come and hope to see it continue to grow. The program really brings students together and gives us skills that we will be able to use throughout our lives.”

Peer mediation in school
The peer mediation process can be initiated by students or faculty members. It is not a mandatory process. If a student does not want to participate, no adverse information about him/her is sent to anyone, but the alternatives for non-participation, such as a visit to the principal’s office or other disciplinary action, are explained at the time of refusal.

There are definite ground rules to the mediation itself. Before the program can begin, each participant has to agree to no violence, no interruptions and a genuine desire to work out the problem. Confidentiality is maintained by all parties, except the mediators must explain that they are legally bound to report any instances in which a participant is a threat to him/herself or to others. Besides agreeing to the above ground rules, participants promise to talk to the mediators during the session and talk to each other.

As trainee Justin Barigian described it, “I think peer mediation is a great program because it lets kids with conflict interact with peers to solve their conflicts. It’s easier for a teenager to talk to another teenager because they might have gone through the same type of stuff.”

Community support
The two-day event was funded by the YHS Site Council along with a generous donation from the Pines Market at Bass Lake. There were also food donations from both Raley’s and Vons supermarkets. “We know the community is behind us when they support us this way,” said Jake VanMeter when he saw a catered lunch provided by the Pines Market.

Other participants also had enthusiastic reviews of the training.
“The overall experience was great...but without the accommodations at Calvin Crest, their great staff and all the team-building activities they organized, it wouldn’t have been as successful,” commented Niki Samuels.

Sean Ratchford said, “The best part was the game of charades at the campfire.” According to Anne Brooks-Evans, “I think peer mediation is one of the best organizations a school could ever think about having. It teaches kids who are having a conflict to talk through it instead of physically fighting. I am so honored to be a part of this whole thing!”

“The best part was the ropes course — you really depend on your partner to motivate you. Alex Cano is the best!” said Sam Gabbard of his partner, who diplomatically replied, “No, YOU are, Sam.”

Perhaps Jessica Schiller summed it up when she said, “Camp was great. It really brought all of us together. It was amazing to see everyone communicating and getting along so well. I didn’t know some of the people who went and it felt like we had grown up together. The way that everyone looked out for each other and helped out was truly amazing.”

YHS’s peer mediators for this school year are: Lacy Abbott, Justin Barigian, Jenna Barney, Anne Brooks-Evans, Amanda Canning, Alexander Cano, Sam Gabbard, Carmen George, Melanie Johnson, Shawn Long, Owen Martin, Alex Michel, Jessie Moore, Samantha Pike, Sean Ratchford, Annette Rivas, Niki Samuels, Jessica Schiller, Kim Usher, Jake VanMeter and Daniel Vawter.


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